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In this season of life, I have watched as my hard-working parents retire after many faithful years of service. My mom retired almost 10 years ago from teaching in the Public School classroom and I am so proud of all of the lives she has influenced and shaped over her 42 years in education. In preparation for her retirement, my sisters and I got the class lists from almost 40 years of teaching and wrote each of the names of the students she had taught on a colorful slip of paper and one by one, we stapled them into a paper chain. We used that to decorate our church fellowship hall when we had her surprise retirement party years ago. Now my sisters and I are trying something similar for my dad. You may or may not know that my dad has been an architect for almost 50 years and he owns and runs his own architecture firm in Daytona Beach. My sisters and I are working on a final project that would feature over his 300 projects from his career to again celebrate his work as he nears his retirement later this year.

I started thinking about all of this over the last few days as I thought about Legacy. I spend some time talking about and encouraging a well-lived Legacy as I have assumed the Chair at Residing Hope (formerly known as the Florida United Methodist Children’s Home) and at those Director Meetings, we talk a lot about leaving a lasting legacy. For instance, we ask the Board, what kind of Legacy do we want to leave for the youth that come through our gate? How do we want to help transform the lives of the families who benefit from the care, counseling, therapy and spiritual life at Residing Hope? What kind of legacy will we leave?

As followers of Jesus, we aren’t often encouraged to think about getting recognized or having our names placed on plagues or a scholarship fund, but, bolstered by humility, we are asked by Jesus, over and over again to point people back to God. As a person who is with Jesus, becoming like Jesus and helping others to know Him, our biggest legacy will be loving God with all of our heart, soul, mind and strength and loving our neighbor as we love ourselves. This is our Legacy. But what does that look like in action? What does a lived legacy of loving God and neighbor look like in today’s world?

Sometimes, leaving a legacy is offering a place of grace and safety for those that aren’t comfortable anywhere else. Maybe you have been called to hold sacred space for individuals that have been shunned or misguided by organized religion; who need a safe space to belong and to be loved. Maybe you have been called to leave a legacy of service to the world through justice and mercy, through feeding hunger bellies or empowering hungry minds. Maybe you have been called to leave a legacy with your wisdom as you shepherd new parents or marriages in conflict. It could be that you are called to love the youth, tutor students, protect refugees, feed the homeless or fight for more equal legislation. Or it could be that you have been called to leave a legacy of bettering our community and equipping it for changing times.

I share all of this because we are beginning our Capital Campaign as you know and you will be hearing about Legacy a lot over these next few weeks. I wanted to start the conversation to say that many of you have already begun to leave your legacy and it is holy and it is good. Not all legacy is connected to money, so much of it is connected to our relationships. I invite you and your family to talk through how you have already begun to leave a legacy for people in the name of Jesus here in Central Florida and then invite the Holy Spirit to show you how that Legacy can grow and expand through generosity in ways you may have not even yet acknowledged. As one of your pastors, I know what a generous church this is in spirit and in means and I look forward to seeing how we will work together to help others come to know and love Jesus Christ through the legacies we build on now as one body.

“For he is our peace; in his flesh he has made both into one and has broken down the dividing wall, that is, the hostility between us,” -Ephesians‬ ‭2‬:‭14‬ ‭NRSVUE‬‬

Last week, I had the opportunity to speak with the Tuesday Morning Men’s Bible Study, and we talked about the meaning of shalom. We had such a great conversation I thought I would share it with you all as well. In the Old Testament, that word means so much more than what we usually think of as peace. It means wholeness, completeness, restoration. Job could say his tents were in shalom because nothing was missing (Job 5:24). David asked about his brothers’ shalom while they were at war (1 Samuel 17:22–23). Shalom isn’t just calm feelings, safety, or the absence of violence, it’s a life made whole!

Isaiah longed for the day when a ruler, the Prince of Peace, would come to bring unending shalom(Isaiah 9:6–7). When Jesus was born, the angels announced his arrival as the coming of eirene, peace in Greek (Luke 2:14). Jesus told his disciples, “My peace I give to you” (John 14:27). Through his life, death, and resurrection, he reconciled us to God and tore down the barriers of hostility that keep people apart.

This kind of peace isn’t passive. It’s active. Paul urged the church to hold unity together with humility, gentleness, patience, and love. Shalom takes effort, it means restoring what’s broken, healing what’s divided, reconciling what’s been estranged.

And yet, we know how far our world is from this peace. Every day we’re faced with mass shootings, political violence, and language that dehumanizes and divides. In the past decade, injuries and deaths from shootings have surged. Leaders and everyday people alike have been targeted with hostility. As Rev. Gary Mason reminds us, “Dehumanization precedes genocide.” When we demonize others, we plant seeds that destroy peace.

Our calling as Christians is clear: not to pull back in despair, not to join in the rhetoric of division, but to live as peacemakers. To carry Christ’s shalom into our homes, our communities, and our public life. To ask not only what’s broken but also how can we help restore this world?

Prayer:

Prince of Peace, our world is fractured, and too often our words and actions add to the division. Forgive us for the times we’ve demonized others or turned away from what is broken. Teach us your way of peace. Make us people of shalom, humble, gentle, patient, and loving. Heal our communities, our nation, and our world, through Christ our Peace. 

Amen.

Karibu Tena means welcome back or welcome home! The majority of our team from the United States in now home safe after an incredible trip to Kenya. This is my third and final devotion on our trip to Naivasha because I wanted to share with you the joy of graduation and the hope of transformed lives. If you read the last two devotions, you know that there were approximately 160 youth who had graduated the INUA empowerment program for Cycle 6 and they are now off and running towards employment in their fields. Many of the youth I met during my week in Naivasha shared that they are already working or already have businesses of their own. Many of these youth already began earning an income to help their younger siblings and loved ones and a few have even been able to hire other workers as their businesses grows.

As much as this is worth celebrating, employment isn’t the only reason why this program exists, ultimately this ministry is about transformational leadership. I saw this first hand on my visit with Zone 3, at Mt. Zion United Methodist Church when I heard a devotion by Simon, one of the youth studying mechanical installation. He read the story of David and Goliath and talked about how these youth have overcome the “Goliaths” in their own lives to finish this program and to graduate as they did on Friday, September 5^th. But the part of the story that I had never paid much attention to over the years was the part of the story when David shows up on the battlefield and his older brothers admonish him asking him why he isn’t back home caring for the sheep of Jesse’s pasture (1 Samuel 17:28). In other words, why aren’t you doing what you have always done, you are not meant for more than shepherding, stay in your lane and get back to your role in the family. This part of the story hit me because I know that many of the youth in Naivasha have been made to feel like this at some point in their lives by family members or friends who don’t see their potential. Maybe it is because of their status in life, what their past looked like or their lack of educational opportunities. But the same question that Davd’s brothers asked him on the battlefield were asked of some of our youth as well. And that they should just be happy to be “watching the sheep.”

But the ministry of the Kenyan staff, and our church, and our sister churches and the support of so many have shown these youth that they are meant for so much more. That the voices of their past that tell them to stay in their place are quieted when the voice of the Living God calls them to new heights, new opportunities, new challenges and ultimately to live a transformed life. This is what INUA is all about and it was in honor to see it in action. And I am thankful for the work of this church, First United Methodist of Ormond Beach, Cornerstone United Methodist Church in Naples and all of the Kenyan staff and partners for making it so. While we celebrate these transformed lives we know that there are many challenges they will still face. Kenya’s overall unemployment rate was estimated at 5.43% in 2024 and there are other challenges these youth will have to overcomes. We ask that you continue to pray for these youth, their mentors, their neighborhood leaders and their families as they begin to live into their transformed lives because there is still more work to do. Enjoy looking through these pictures to see the joy, the sense of accomplishment and their newfound hope as our 148 youth from Cycle 6 begin to take on the Goliaths in their own lives and live as transformed people through the hope of Jesus Christ!

Habari! And greetings brothers and sisters from Kenya. As promised, I wanted to share with you a bit about all that our Team has been up to as we prepare for the INUA Graduation on Friday, September 5^th.

After arriving late on Friday afternoon, we have seen a lot and celebrated even more. After arriving in Nairobi, we went to a local fish hatchery and picked up the 1,000 baby tilapia fish that will be at the IATEC farm and will help produce fertilizer through fish farming. After meeting the INUA staff for dinner we rested after 34 hours of straight travel. On Saturday, we were lucky enough to go to Nakuru for a Safari through the National Park and I made friends with a Giraffe. On Saturday, we met the new GMF (Global Missions Fellow) from Ghana named Nick and heard about how he will bless the INUA youth for the next two years while being a mentor to them.

On Sunday, I experienced joy like no other while worshipping at Trinity United Methodist Church through singing, clapping, dancing, prayer, testimonies and the spoken Word. I was privileged to preach and can say that the Joy of the Lord is in this place! We ended the day at the farm that has been planned for and prayed over for almost 10 years. What an incredible property and potential that this place has for the Longonot community and its surrounding areas. We met the “Fabulous Four” Jane, Phyllis, Sentry and Paul and they were proud to show us around and share all of their knowledge and pride from what they had built together.

The following day on Monday we hit the ground running and met with four neighborhoods back at Trinity United Methodist Church. We met the graduating youth from neighborhoods in Zone 1: Pipeline, Kyoto, Industrial and Service Site. We met mechanics, barbers, electrical engineers, cooks and hair dressers. We visited a few of the INUA alumni and the graduates that are already working and owning their own businesses. We were thankful to distribute two new toothbrushes to each graduate and do a life skills training video on Dental Hygiene thanks to Dr. Jim Flatley.

On Tuesday, we visited two more neighborhoods and connected with more of the graduates. The first neighborhood in the morning was Mirera and they have their team meetings in Sanctuary UMC, a tiny blue church in the middle of a neighborhood that you can only get to on dirt roads. These graduates had made beautiful necklaces and bracelets as their Team project, and they were proud to show us their work, and we were privileged to buy some and support their efforts. We visited one graduate’s business in that neighborhood where she makes chips (fries), choma and chipati as a hospitality student. And then we stopped on the side of the freeway and had a picnic lunch with the INUA Staff. The final stop of the day was in the Longonot neighborhood which is closest to the farm. This is a new neighborhood and the first cycle that these youth have participated in and while they were shy and quiet, they were so proud of all of the work they had done. We met in the Chief’s Office (like a mayor’s office, but this structure is tribal) and we heard some prayers, some worship and some hopes that these youth have for their futures.

I have seen God so much over these last five days, there is not enough time to tell you all of the ways. But I will say that I see God most through the joy of these youth who have encountered Jesus through this program. Many of them spoke of their faith, their hope, their promise of a new life or new possibilities and every single youth I talked to shared their thanks for all of you who have written letters or supported them with prayers. I am privileged to be one of your pastors and thankful that I have had a chance to learn more about the work of INUA Partners in Hope.

We will have a lot more to share when we return back home, but for now, pray for all of the details surrounding Friday’s graduation as well as the youth who we are here to celebrate. Please submit any questions you have about INUA, IATEC, the graduation or the trip overall to racheld@fumcwp.org

Uende Salama (Go with Peace)!

On Thursday, August 28^th (tomorrow if you are reading this on Wednesday), a team of seven of us will be traveling to Naivasha, Kenya to celebrate our 160 graduates that have completed their two years of life skills training and career preparation. These young men and women, have worked hard for themselves, their families and their communities and it is time to celebrate their incredible accomplishments.

As you know, INUA Partners in Hope has been a ministry of First United Methodist Church of Winter Park for 15 years and many of you have been financial supporters, prayer partners, letter writers or side-line cheerleaders ever since. I feel honored to go and see the ministry first-hand. Over the last five years of being one of your pastors, I have heard so much about this incredible partnership of INUA and our three home churches here in Florida. Before I even came to be one of your pastors, my mother told me all about this ministry as one of the lead volunteers at my home church, First United Methodist Church of Ormond Beach. I look forward to learning more and seeing the lives that have been transformed through this ministry. I look forward to preaching this Sunday at Trinity United Methodist Church and serving alongside Paul Matheri to offer God’s grace in worship. I look forward to seeing all eight neighborhoods and meeting the neighborhood transformers that lead in that life and community transformation. I look forward to seeing the progress that has been made at the farm and all of the work that has already been done there to prepare for the growing of plants and the fish farming culture that is about to begin. And I look forward to helping set up, execute and make the graduation happen for these youth on Friday, September 5^th.

I share all of this to say that I am asking for your prayers. Not only for our safe travels in our goings and comings as well as for protection against any sickness or health concerns that would slow us down. But I also ask that you pray for us to be fully present and fully open to the work of the Holy Spirit while we are there. I can say for me in particular, I am tempted to be focused some on the things at home, and the things that I can’t control. This is my first trip away from my young family and I am anxious about it. But I am learning, as I try and prepare my spirit, that my anxiety comes from a need to control. This may be only my struggle, but I would imagine that we all struggle when things are outside of our control. You know how much I love my family and you know that I worry when I leave for a major trip in the beginning of the school year and in the middle of hurricane season. I think this is normal, but I ask that you would pray with me and all of us who are traveling these next two weeks to be open to a spirit of peace. When I am worried, I miss things right in front of me. When I am anxious, I don’t see the things that often bring calm and stillness to my spirit. And I know that God moves most when we are vulnerable and when we are forced not to rely on our own strength and abilities. There is something freeing in that, brothers and sisters and I look forward to sharing more when I return.

In the meantime, please submit any questions you will have about INUA, IATEC, the graduation or the trip overall to racheld@fumcwp.org,  as I will be checking email occasionally as WiFi allows and posting pictures and a follow up devotion next week to tell you more about these youth that we are celebrating. Until next time, Jambo and God be with you!

This Sunday, we are singing one of my very favorite hymns: And Can It Be. I want to encourage you to sing boldly and really listen to the words. They are powerful words of grace, freedom, and awe at the love of Christ.

A Little History

And Can It Be was written in 1738 by Charles Wesley, just days after his own conversion experience. He and his brother John had been raised in a devout Anglican home, but both wrestled with doubts about salvation. After Charles felt his “heart set free,” he poured out his joy in this hymn. It was one of his very first hymns, and it has become one of the great treasures of Christian worship. Phrases like “my chains fell off, my heart was free” capture the wonder of God’s grace breaking into a sinner’s life.

A Personal Word

Growing up, this hymn shaped my faith and theology in profound ways. Verses 4 and 5 especially have always stayed with me: “My chains fell off, my heart was free, I rose, went forth, and followed Thee.” That picture of grace, God’s freedom breaking into my life, continues to be one of the clearest ways I understand salvation. Praise God that our chains fall off and our hearts are set free in Christ!

Grace and the Scriptures

John Wesley often reminded the early Methodists that God’s grace is at the very heart of our faith. He wrote about prevenient grace (God’s work drawing us before we even know it), justifying grace (God’s pardon and forgiveness through Christ), and sanctifying grace (God’s Spirit shaping us to become holy in love). For Wesley, all of this truth is grounded in the Scriptures. He called himself homo unius libri, “a man of one book,” meaning that above all, he lived by the Bible. Wesley believed that the Scriptures are “the rule and guide of our faith,” the clearest witness to the grace of God revealed in Jesus Christ.

How We Sing Together

As we prepare to sing, let’s remember John Wesley’s own “Directions for Singing,” printed in the United Methodist Hymnal:

1. Sing all – don’t skip parts or sit silently. Join in!

2. Sing lustily and with good courage – lift your voice with strength and joy.

3. Sing modestly – don’t try to drown out your neighbor. Blend your voice with others.

4. Sing in time – keep with the congregation, not dragging or rushing ahead.

5. Above all, sing spiritually – let your heart be directed to God, seeking to please God more than yourself.

So as we sing And Can It Be this Sunday, let’s sing it not just as music but as the story of salvation sung and experienced. May it be our proclamation that God’s grace has set us free.

Here’s a rendition you can listen to ahead of time: https://youtu.be/Sbx6RNev-o0?si=dqfPTM4kHxcgFsDf

I was picking up my kids from school this week and I was excited to see them. It had been a particularly busy and productive day and I missed them. I always look forward to hearing about their day, listening to their stories, and watching them interact with each other as we drive home and transition into our nighttime routine. But when I picked up my kids, their personalities had magically changed into cranky, whiny monsters and I was a bit overwhelmed. One child was mad that I picked them up too early, another one was angry that it wasn’t a swim lesson day, and the last one didn’t make any friends at camp and obviously that was my fault.

Then I gave them all a snack, and suddenly, they weren’t as mean to me. It happened gradually, but the drive home felt less like the fiery pits of hell and more calm, even if I was still on guard.

It got me thinking about being HANGRY. You know this term, angry because you are hungry; it happens to the best of us. And boy, oh boy, was it my reality that afternoon. My kids were deregulated, overstimulated, and just plain hungry. And it gave new meaning to the spiritual hunger I see every day.

I am convinced that the anger and frustration and whininess that we see in our world, and especially in our leaders, comes from a deep spiritual starvation. We were created for God’s nourishment, God’s food, God’s sustenance and we have traded it for a cheap substitute.

It gives new meaning to the story of the feeding of the 5,000, although we know that only men were counted, because women and children were often overlooked and so, best estimates put the crowd, that day on the mountain side around 15-20,000 people that had listened all day and were now hungry. The disciples looked to Jesus for the answer, but he gave it right back to them. The versions differ in all four Gospels, but in Luke, chapter 6, he tells his disciples, “Give them something to eat.” Was Jesus only talking about literal food, or something deeper, something more sustaining?

I wonder what the Kingdom of God would look like if we met the cranky, whiny, emotional people we encounter on a daily basis and assume that they are at various stages of being HANGRY and then work to feed them. Maybe we actually feed them, like many of you have done through the Family Promise ministry. Maybe they need emotional food and those of you that are Care Partners and Prayer Warriors have given emotional food through your cards, love and support. And maybe too, those that are the most frustrating to be around need the Spiritual food of God’s grace. It could be that they need just a snack, to knock it off. Don’t get me wrong, some people need way more than a snack, but what if all we had to offer was a small appetizer of God’s grace? For instance, it wouldn’t take much to offer a smile, a shift in perspective, a hug, a listening ear, an invite to coffee, an extra three minutes of your time, a prayer. All of these things don’t cost us anything other than being present and expecting the Holy Spirit to show up.

What do you think? Who is HANGRY in your community? May this be an encouragement to you. And if it is you, if you are HANGRY, get yourself a snack. Or better yet, give some food to someone else and see what God does with a rumbly tummy and a new outlook.

AMEN

This Sunday is our last week of the Follow the Yellow Brick Road sermon series. So I thought I’d reflect on The Wizard of Oz in this devotional.

In the movie, Dorothy’s world begins in black and white. Her life is small, familiar, and focused mostly on herself, her struggles, her fears, and her desire to escape. But when the storm lifts her into Oz, everything shifts into vivid color. It’s as if a new dimension of life is revealed. And even more curiously, the people she already knew, the farmhands, appear in new forms as the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Cowardly Lion. They were always there, but it took a journey beyond herself to see them more fully.

Isn’t that true in our spiritual life too?

There’s a story in Luke 24 where two disciples are walking on the road to Emmaus. They’re talking about Jesus’ death and their dashed hopes. They’re so wrapped up in their grief and confusion that they don’t recognize the person walking with them is Jesus himself. He listens. He walks with them. He even opens Scripture to them. Still, they don’t see clearly. Not until they pause, sit down, and break bread with him. Then their eyes are opened. Then they see Jesus fully for who he is.

How often do we walk past people without really seeing them? Maybe they’re coworkers, neighbors, church friends, or even family. We see them in black and white, like flat characters in the background of our own story. We may know their hobbies, their political views, or how they take their coffee. We may know their favorite sports team or what pew they sit in on Sundays. But do we really know them? Do we know what keeps them up at night? What brings them joy? What wounds they carry that are still healing? But when we slow down, listen, ask questions, and share life, the vivid moments of life come through. They become who they truly are, complex, beautiful, beloved children of God.

The path of following Jesus is like Dorothy’s journey. It reveals the vivid depth in others. We begin to see people not just as characters in our story, but as companions on the road. The Spirit helps us pay attention, turn our focus outward, and take time to share life with those we might have overlooked.

Reflection Questions:

• Who in your life have you only seen in black and white? What would it take to see them more fully?
• Are you open to the idea that someone you already know could be more courageous, loving, or wise than you realized?
• How might Jesus be walking alongside you today in the disguise of someone you’ve overlooked?

Prayer:
Jesus, open my eyes. Help me to see people not through the lens of distraction or assumption, but through your eyes of love. Turn my black and white world into a full color story where I can recognize the beauty, depth, and divine image in each person I meet. Amen.